My Happy Place
- Ruthie Suli Urman

- Jun 8
- 2 min read
How the Pacific Northwest Opened My Heart Again

Some places don’t simply welcome us; they remember us.
The Pacific Northwest has always felt that way for me. It is difficult to explain with logic alone. The towering trees, the endless shades of green, the quiet conversations between wind and water—there is something deeply restorative about being there. It feels less like visiting a destination and more like returning home to a forgotten part of myself.
This recent journey carried an even deeper meaning because my children are there. What began as a visit became something much more profound: an opportunity to reconnect, reflect, and listen. Not only to them, but also to myself.
The experience felt magical. Mysterious. Heart-opening.
There are seasons in life when we move so quickly that we forget how much wisdom exists in simply being present. Walking among ancient trees, watching the light filter through the forest canopy, and sharing ordinary moments with the people I love reminded me that healing rarely arrives with an announcement. More often, it arrives quietly, disguised as a walk, a conversation, a sunset, or a breath of fresh air.
As a writer, I found myself gathering these moments the way one gathers treasures along a shoreline. Each day seemed to offer another lesson, another invitation to see life differently.
Nature became both teacher and companion, gently reminding me that growth is not something we force. It is something we allow.
The Pacific Northwest has become more than a place on a map for me. It is a living reflection of what matters most: connection, presence, wonder, and love.
And perhaps that is why it remains my happy place.
Because every time I return, I leave a little more whole than when I arrived.
“Some places don’t simply welcome us; they remember us.”
“Healing rarely arrives with an announcement.”
“Growth is not something we force. It is something we allow.”

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